I have this “frined” who only talks to me when she needs something. For example, “I’m having some issues at home, can I come over?” “I’m bored, can I come over?” “I have no one else to hang out with…can I come over?” She has lived with us twice because of family issues. I feel really bad about the problems that she is having, but after we have helped her, she tosses us aside like an used tissue. I hate it that she doesn’t appreciate anything we do for her. Plus, she hangs out with the wrong people and they are just setting her up for bad choices. I have tried talking to her about this before, but she gets really angry. Her birthday is coming up and she didn’t invite us to the party, when just last week, she was living with us. I don’t know what to do with this girl anymore. Please help!!!
Should I Tell My Friend That She is Setting herself up for Bad Decisions?
- Should I confront her again? (50%, 1 Votes)
- Should I just brush it off and move on? (50%, 1 Votes)
- Should I just keep serving her every need? (0%, 0 Votes)
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Hello! My name is Brooklyn Pierce and I’m the star (or more like, “lost soul”) of the young adult novel,
March 16, 2012 at 7:22 pm
You need to talk to this girl! If you don’t lay down the law and tell her what she’s doing is wrong, then she’ll keep taking advantage of you! If you and your family aren’t getting any appreciation, then you need to tell her it makes you feel hurt, and that you won’t want to do anything nice for her anymore if she doesn’t even appreciate it……. Hope this helped.
April 15, 2012 at 2:31 am
I have the same problem with my “friend”. An d I dont know what tod do either!