Hi, I’m a girl and about 7 months ago, I met a guy, which I’ll rename for this site Will, and we became friends, it was during summer, and while we were at the same place away from home for about a month, our friendship become really important to me, and he told me it was important for him too. Then, we started to skype everyday, and it was fine for about 3 weeks. During the summer, we realised we had many commons interests we could talk about, and I thought we would continue to talk together, as he said me he wanted to keep in touch often. But after 3 weeks more or less, he stopped to start talking to me, so I kept starting conversations, but less and less often, since I thought maybe he needed space, so i talked just enough to always have something new from my life to say, and how was going school and all, but his answers became shorter and shorter, and after 2 months, he stopped telling me things about how his life was going, in the end, i learned big things happening to him from facebook instead of him, while I used to be one of the first to know things he planned to do or did. My problem really is..should i continue to be his friend, because I think a friend that never talks to me isn’t a good friend, one time, I even decided to wait to talk to him until he said hello first, but after 38 days, I talked to him, because he never said hello first!!! I really like to talk to him, because he is funny, or at least he used to be and he have pass a good summer full of fun, but now, I feel like this friendship is a oneway thing, were I am the only one to care, what should I do? Help me please.
PS: In the beginning, he said we would skype face to face often, but actually, we only chat by writing things down, and I know he skype face to face with the others friends we made that summer, I just don’t get why I feel like he don’t want of our friendship. I thought I should tell that too.
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This question was submitted by Pixie-dust